Wednesday, February 3, 2010

Update....

today...
court....
crying...
urgent care...i have excruciating back pain...possible kidney stones...they are checking...have been in a lot of pain...they get to send my pee away to check and see if it's something bigger like a tumor...

I was sad today...and i think God must think I'm pretty tough...because he won't give us more than we can handle....so I feel honored He thinks I can handle all this...

Remember, the most beautiful flowers grow out of manure (poop)...ha ha ha ha!

I gotta go, I'm burning up and my back is killing me....

typed very slowly...ha ha ha...huge love and pain free backs.....your kandee

118 comments:

Tonkin said...

We are praying for you, Darling..

(Tanya and Lex V.)

Sarah said...

I hope everything gets better really soon, Kandee! You deserve nothing but happiness and love!!

Marel said...

Aww I'm sorry Kandee! I hope you get better soon. I'll pray for your back. ♥ from Arkansas!

MakeupByAmberRashid said...

oh no! i hope you feel better soon :) good luck with the court stuff. you are an amazing person and an amazing mother, so no worries. lots of love from me to you :D

Amber

girl_in_ak said...

Hang in there love!!! God KNOWS your strong!!! I've been praying for you constantly and I thought about you all day, Your an inspiration and a joy, I hope someday to meet you in person!!! Love and prayers Kandee!!!


~Carley

Shazzamy said...

You're so strong! Hang in there Kandee!

Love and pain free :)

Sara said...

Ouchie! I had surgery a year ago to have a stone the size of my entire right kidney taken out. Let me tell you, from the time it was diagnosed in Sept '08 till they did the surgery in Jan '09 I was in a LOT of pain. Aleve was the only thing that kept me from trying to remove my kidney by myself in the process. Good luck and lots of positive energy being sent your way!

HoneyBear said...

You'll get through this love, youre a strong woman, and yes, God wont give you more than you can handle. Pray, pray, pray. You will break through this tough time and you will be stronger! You will transform like the butterfly. I love you Kandee youre amazing, we all think so, so fall back on your fans, when you have no one else to fall back on. we will never judge, only love and support. xox achleejohnson <3

Hannah said...

You are in my prayers! I know that God will heal your back :)
Oh my! I looked on my side bar and there is a link for "pain free living", talking about the spine and stuff, oh the irony in that!

namispazz said...

I hope you feel better!

design+photography said...

be strong Kandee. I'll pray for you. I know God won't give anything that we can't handle. Get well soon... <3

jesusfreak413 said...

praying for you!!!!

Meredith said...

Kandee, you and your amazing self have been in my thoughts all day long today, and you will remain there. :) I hope everything is ok with you and that you get to feeling better ASAP. I love you and you are so inspiring! Hang in there!

xxoo,
Meredith

Voman said...

You're right. He KNOWS how strong you are and is watching over u.

djcairo said...

Kandee, it's really tough right now...but you're going make it, I promise. Just look out beyond the present and know that it WILL get better...I don't know how, or when, but you're a good person and you have to rely on that. The person that you are, your beliefs and what you own in your heart. Trust it. Trust yourself, and trust in the future. Hang tight my friend and believe. XOXO Janine

sarad4 said...

wow, I can't believe all this keeps happening to you. you are such a great person for seeing the positive. I thought my back hurt for laying on it wrong, but kidney stones are absolutely no fun. I really hope you don't have them, but if it is something, I hope that's all it is.

saline-queen said...

I am praying for you, Kandee.

Take it easy honey. I know this is a great place to vent and to get support, but please take it easy! I hope you're doing well!!!

Everything will be great, in the end. Every dark cloud has a silver lining.

LilSisOfaMarine said...

Awww Kandee that makes me sad! I'll say a prayer for you tonight!! *hugs*
~Cassidy Z.

KatieBaby said...

Remember when you think you have hit rock bottom, the only place to go is up! Hoping for the best for you! Much love!

Miss Tapia said...

Hope you feel better soon!

DC said...

Just remember it's not God trying to hurt you its the devil. Someone that loves you wouldn't hurt you.

Don't let any stupid people tell you it's God trying to teach you something either, the devil likes it when people blame God for something he's done.

The greatest con the devil ever pulled was convincing the world he didn't exist.
Don't forget that.

You're in my prayers :D

Kirsten said...

Cranberry juice and water followed by more cranberry juice. Repeat step one but don't drown yourself. It won't fix the court thing but it'll help the kidneys and the pain. Hope this helps.

Stephanie Marie said...

Aww, I hope you feel better soon Kandee! Drink lots of water and cranberry juice. xoxo

kelliegonzo said...

hugs! hope you feel better soon darling <3333

Veronica said...

I'm so sorry to hear you are going through so much, have faith and believe that God is good and he is always with you. I will be praying for you!

Steph said...

Im so sorry Kandee..ill be praying for u babe love u lots and i hope u get to feeling better soon!!

PBunnieP said...

You're a tough cookie Kandee!
We know you are :)

Sara said...

Hope you feel better!

Shaheen Shine said...

Kandee Your in my prayers I KNOW YOU`LL FEEL BETTER AND GOD WILL TELL YOU WHY YOUR BACK AND SIDE IS HURTING!!!!! God bless you,your children,your family,and friends

Love Shaheen!! =)

Leanniette said...

lots of love and prayers to one amazing ladyyy
<3

Shavonda said...

Hi Kandee,
My dad tells me all the time:
"Every time you call and tell me how ur world is falling apart because of (xyz), you somehow find the strenth to get through it, even when you are TELLING me u can't do it. And look at you. Ur still here, talking about how much (xyz) sucked. But you had the strength all along". Yes, XYZ DOES suck! But you will make it out just fine, and be strong enough to deal w/ another XYZ! Oh goodie! I promise,things will be fine. Just ask my dad :-) Take care.

michellejohns82 said...

I hope you feel better soon Kandee

Janessa82 said...

I hope you got my letter in the mail today :) I'm so sorry to hear about your possible kidney stones! I've had them 3 times in my life and so I know the pain you're in! Hope all comes out okay with the testing, I will for sure be praying for you! Love you girl, keep smiling. God LOVES YOU!!!!! Love, Designgirl00 - Janessa.

Elysabella said...

Oh no! I hope you feel better buddy! Much love to you and best wishes from me to you! Big hugs and kisses! Muahh :)

Megan Clair said...

fell better kandee!!! im so sorry that all of this happened to you and i'll be thinking of you!

Jane said...

hey kandee: stay strong, drink lots of water, lay off the salty food and remember that we're all rooting for you!

Kirsten said...

No matter what happens, everything will be okay.

I read the story Ian wrote. There's only 1 little hole that I can see, but it's not that big of a hole. Just wondering why your Mum left for LA without getting the child/ren(?) to the neighbor before leaving. That's it. Be prepared to answer that question. Forewarned is forearmed.

Kandee, the child protection folks have much bigger fish to fry than you. They're dealing with horrific abusive situations and just want to make sure your kids are ok. It seems to me that both you and child services have the same objective - to keep your kids safe. Even the policeman was looking out for your child's best interests, even if he was a little short sighted. Don't make anyone into the bad guy, especially if they are involved in law. Just provide the facts and let them be self-evident.

So take a deep breath, hold it in the lower belly, let if swirl around in there for a second, then breath out up through your spine and out the top of your head.

Do not let the word 'authorities' bother you. You're the Mum which is just as authoritive. You just have to line up your ducks about the course of events and explain it and provide evidence to prove what you say is the truth.

You have many positive resources and character references available. Use them. Get statements in writing (or better in person at the court) from the children's teachers, or people who have daily experience with you and the children together who are not related to you, the neighbor, a babysitter etc, and the phone bill to prove you made the calls to ensure your children were safe.

This is not about emotions or love, it's about the law and evidence. It sounds like you can prove that you did all you could do to ensure the children's safety while you were away, and that your daily life with them is healthy which can be proved with the help of the school.

Again, everything will be ok. The stress of the situation is probably the cause of your back pain. If you can afford it, please go get a massage. If you can't afford it, explain it to the therapist, and catch up with the bill later. Your health is most important. You can't take care of anyone without it.

Do the breathing thing again. Yoga stretches if you can. Everything WILL be okay Kandee. It might suck for a little while with paperwork and procedures, but it will be ok.

Feel free to contact me via my YouTube channel - 'Exploreall' or my paranormal research channel - 'Spookypalooza' - and I'll get right back to you.

- Kirsten

Kate Gene said...

You and your family will be in my thoughts and prayers. Sending lots of good vibes your way!

xx

Natalie said...

i really hope you'll get better soon, Kandee! just don't panic.
with love from Latvia :)

dimples_blueice said...

i hope you feel better kandee, just relax. take it easy. you will be fine (:

much love<33

21 and 79 years to go said...

AW KANDEE!!!! I hope you feel so much better!!! and while you just MIGHT be in bed while reading your comments...i just want you to know that I am saying a prayer for you right now...just wait for a minute.
**************
Ok, I prayed for you that God will continue to use you for the beautiful, positive, flowery role model that you are. :) You are right, God doesn't give us more than we can handle. And you are a tough cookie!!!!! You mean so much to me and I feel like you are the big sister I never had!!! Don't give up! Don't forget Job and the struggles that he went through. God is using you for so much good in this life and this blog is only one way to prove it. I love you Kandee. God bless you. :)
Love, Sam

Amanda said...

http://www.recordcourier.com/article/20100203/NEWS/100209910/1001&parentprofile=1049

anni said...

☆ Dearest Kandee ☆

You are in my Thoughts and Prayers. Sending Strenght, Angels and Love from across the world to You Sweet Darling <3

The haters are just poor devil bas***ds who cannot do anything else but try to tease us or try to make us frightened and down our mood.. But they're nothing but a big fat lie.

CARE BEAR HUGS <3
Better times are on their way!
Annina

hello said...

at first i felt sympothy but things just seem to keep coming

now in addition to child endangerment criminal charges, now Kandee has new charges towards her of Truency. She allegedly let her child flunk out of school.
The schools had to show proof of this to have the charges layed so I am just baffled.

http://www.recordcourier.com/article/20100203/NEWS/100209910&plckCurrentPage=1&sid=apps.recordcourier.com

zeyna said...

feel better kandee love u ull get through all this i promise.

DIMPLES said...

I hope you get better.

Purple Crown Princess Cosmetics said...

Awww poookie, feel better, I am sure everythin will be fine, you are oin through alot and it is effecting you physically, Kandee you are strong and you can get through this, you can get through anything.

Diane said...

Oh , Kandee, I am so sorry to hear this. I know what back pain is and it's horrible! I just hope everything will turn out ok, because it's killing me (and all your other fans) to read these stuff.

We're with you all the way!

kiss!!!!

Carmen said...

Get well soon Kandee!!!

sophierecktenwald said...

i know its not possible, but i hope one day, we can take some of others pain for a little while..
i m not saying i m happy, but you are going through very tough times..
sorry

i m here
we are here
with you

we love you

sophie

eleaka said...

Best wishes for you today. May you be protected and held in the arms of angels wings and kissed and guided by the most gorgeous of God's butterflies. Hugs and kisses

theee mizzMAI said...

Keep strong Kandee... much love xo

laurenashmcnair said...

prayed for you early this morning, kandee..

read psalms 9:9-10 today. i pray that God genuinely will be your refuge today.

love you and all you do!(:

thedicegirl said...

Kandee i think its so sad you are having such a hard time recently and that everything bad seems to be happening at once. I hope things work out for the best soon x

Leah said...

Kandee you and your family are in my thoughts. Good happy vibes I will be sending down there to you. You are strong, and you will make it through this. I just made it through a huge valley in my life and right now I'm just starting to climb back up the first hill. I didn't know if I was strong enough for what I was experiencing. Turns out I was :) You are too. Thank you for sharing with us and being our friend. :)

Flavia said...

Kandee, you might have kidney infection. Is the pain on the lower part of your back? This may be it. You need to drink lots of water, so that your kidneys can purify themselfs, and your body too! But it has to be pure water, not vitamin water or soda(although I love vitamin water =D ). You could see a doc and about it...
Best of luck and get well!
Xoxo

marcia furman said...

Remember the catapult!! Remember the catapult!

I'm so sorry you might have a kidney stone!! I know that is one of the worse pains EVER. I'm still praying for you so much and even harder now!

Alemka said...

Dear Kandee

So sad to hearing those news :( i really wish u and your lovely family all the best!

I had a tumor as well and i had a surgery 3 months ago! everything went well! thanks God!
But I'm sure, everything is good with you!

I'm sending you sooo much love and strenght!
Kiki

Leah said...

Praying for you, Kandee!

Johanna said...

Hi Kandee, my daughter has been getting this for a while now. For her it is a kidney infection, cleared up with cipro antibiotic. She gets fever, terrible back pains, etc. Woman, you have to stop to take time to pee!! That's part of my daughter's issue. She's in high school with such a rushed schedule that she doesn't want to take the time to pee, so she holds it a long time and ends up with a urinary tract infection that spreads to the kidneys. Not something to mess with! Drink lots of sugar free cranberry juice, but get some antibiotics, and if necessary, there are some cranberry supplements you can take that help ward that stuff off, but you have to take a bunch of them.

vanessa.marino said...

Stress is manifesting all throughout your body.:-( I know you are being tested right now but we all have complete faith that you will come out of this more amazing then you already are!!! Sending you love and light!!

Ann said...

Oh no, Kandee, I'm so sorry to hear you're in so much pain. Sending you lots of love, hugs, and prayers!!

Jazzy said...

@ Amanda - What a pathetic person you are if you have to stick your nose into other people's business! You certainly have issues if you find it necessary to make that many comments about something which is none of your business. You must be filled with so much bitterness about something in your own life that you have to try to hurt others as a way of expressing it!

@ hello - You just made a fool of yourself! Check your spelling! If you're still attending school I suggest you pay more attention in class!

Kandee - I hope your pain eases soon.

Maria said...

Hang in there, Love. I really and truly believe that when we're faced with challenges (that seem like they really may be more than we can bear) that God does allow us to go through it. He knows that we can handle it...and guess what? We survive it so that we can reach down and help someone come up out of the same situation. You're gonna be such a monumental help to someone who's gonna be in your same situation but that person may be considering suicide but because they have you as an example of someone who's "been through the fire" and came out in tact, maybe a little burned on the edges...but still okay.

You hang in there cause someone out there needs you to share your war story and your battle scars.

tiftheblondie said...

You're a tough lady. Don't let the people in court know your pain and give them hell. You deserve bright days filled with all the flowers in the world (you've been through so much poop!). I wish you the best of luck today and I look forward to reading your next blog about how your day turned around!

Ginga said...

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Huge hugs and love coming your way!

Shannon aka GingaSlappa1

Ältheä said...

Love you darling!! I hope that everything will be better! Your an amazing woman!!! I love you so much!
if there are anything i can do just tell me!!

katekeetch said...

Aww poor Kandee... I know back pain is soooo excruciating... I broke my pelvis having my daughter and have been in a lot of back pain too... if its not kidney stones then maybe you should try a chiropractor... she did wonders for me... I can walk again... and carry my beautiful little girl around to show her off haha! Praying for you! lots of Love xoxo

Kristy said...

Kandee,
You are in my thoughts and prayers. You always make me feel like i can go on when i think i cant. God will carry you through this tough time and in the end you will be like wow! But just the same i hope your kidneys feel better is there is nothing wrong . You inspire so many people . You are amazing! Take care! Lots of prayers sent your way!

God'sGirl said...

Kandee....my 3 little ones have watched so many Kandee videos on my lap or over my shoulder that they have become as much your fans as I am. My girls (4 and 6) especially love you!!! We will be praying for you today!! Praying for complete healing and for strength to keep facing all of these trials. GOd is using your trust in Him and your perserverance through difficulty to inspire and encourage so many!!! Hang in there.....God is in control and He longs to be gracious to you!!!

Elise said...

Kandee,
You are an inspiration to us all :) I can't believe the things you stay strong through. Seeing you stay strong has helped me stay strong through my little pile of poo I'm working through.

Thank you,
Elise

Rachel said...

Hey Kandee!! Just wanted to let u know that my Dad had that same thing u are describing about the back pain and thinking it was something bad. Here it was anxiety. I hope everything gets better. I am praying for you! And I just love your videos!!! U help me everyday with you words of wisdom and laughter! Thanks

Nichole with an H said...

Hi Kandee..I hope you are feeling better soon. My friend who is 39 and has 5 kids 2 of which are twin babies is going through her own tough time she found out she has colon cancer..but on a high note this week she found out it is stage one, no chemo or radiation, and after surgery and some down time she should be fine. Not that your in anyway this type of sick but just wanted to tell you a story that is looking up to be better than we thought! I love your make up vids I watch all the time, your such a sweet and genuine seeming person I wish you only the best. xoxo Nichole

perfectionishuman said...

You'll get through this my lovely!
Good luck x

Tina said...

You are amazing, Kandee. I watch all of your videos and read your blogs all the time. Stay strong, you can make it through all of this. You have so much support from everybody!
<3

natalie75 said...

Oh Kandee............ you ARE strong, and you have ALL of us when you aren't feeling so strong....... Saying prayers for you .........

coco said...

I hope you feel better soon!!

Hugs!

En Pey said...

OH KANDEE HOPE THIS WILL ALL COME TO A PAST.

I HAVE BEEN FOLLOWING YOU FOR A MONTH NOW, AND I THINK YOU ARE STRONG AND STILL BUBBLELY!

YOU WILL BE IN MY PRAYER! TAKE CARE!

Lauren said...

Feel Better Kandee! You're a very strong woman and you will get better!

Forget Me Not said...

I will be praying for you! That is the best way to look at sucky situations! God knows you are strong! I really hope it is something easily treated and cured!

Love

victoria

Katrin said...

I hope you feel better soon Kandee! I will be sending you beautiful thoughts:)
Love from Iceland...
Katrin

Sonia said...

Hope you get better soon!!!

earth said...

feel better, gorgeous ♥ :(

Dolly said...

Get well soon Kandee!! Take care!

Dolly said...
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Kattay11 said...

Awww Kandee, I’m sending all my love and happy vibes your way, I hope they get there fast! Kidney stones are horrible! All the women in my family have had them! (Except me (thank the lord)). I hope you feel better soon

S said...

aaawww kandee!!
i wish we knew each other personally so that i could come on over and help you out with everything and support you and run errands and just help with everything.
this court thing is crazy. i read some news thingy from one of the links and i see what you mean about poop comments from people. me reading them = me getting ready to whoop and hand them their asses. what pathetic idiots. seriously do what the celebs do and act like the tabloids/press dont exist (unless they dont twist your words and actually do what reporters usED to do and investigate and research the case their writing about).
i really do wish i could just drive over and help with everything.
stay brave and keep fighting
(also you really should read what kirsten wrote - sounds like good advice).. i wish i was a lawyer - i would come to your rescue
x

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Kala said...

Kandee- I hope your back starts feeling better soon! Praying for you in Kansas!
Love, Kala

lorie28irry said...

hi kandee...im from the Philippines...get well...i want you to know that you make me very happy every time i see your videos even though im so so so very far from you..get well i love you

Monica said...

Kandee, you are in my thoughts and I am sending you love and strength. I wish you could go see my mom in L.A. She is a healer and I know you two would hit it off. She's from Japan, a place where it's not weird to believe in a higher power or spirits or energies. I will let her know about you and how you are doing. She's a mom to everyone she meets, even older people! I know she could be of some help to you. I just want to let you know, I support you and I'm sorry you're in pain and feel as though you're being tested. You are strong and you can live through this and come out of it better that you were before. Please believe in yourself as I believe in you and as do so many others.

lorie28irry said...

im on my way to fixing my self coz of u..u inspire me so much..i cant buy things u have coz here its very expensive but im trying to look for alternatives..you a wonderful person thank you get well love you

Aina said...

I am sending you warm and positive waves. Hope you will be feel better and healthy..

Amber said...

I get back and kidney pains when I'm extreamly Stressed and you sure have a lot of things to be stressed over. It will get better.
Drink you cranberry juice and water, and if you get sick of cranberry juice they sell it in concentrated pill forms at health food stores.
It will get better, Feel better, take some Kandee time and relax, maybe Chamomile tea.
You are strong and Beautiful.
Hang in there, you can do it.

gris said...

WISH YOU BEST OF LUCK! I'LL PRAY 4 U. GOD IS ALWAYS BY YOUR SIDE & HE'S EVEN CLOSER IN THE HARD TIMES. HE'S CARRYING YOU.

vs said...

If He brings you to it, He'll bring you through it!

not even a christian/catholic but even i know that ;)
love you. take care.

Eman said...

My prayers are with you Kandee.

Tracy Stewart said...

Well crap! Feel better Sweetie... We're all rooting for you. ;o)

PinkWithGlitter said...

hope you get better soon!!!

lots of love!

xoxo

Miss Priss Morgan said...

OH NO Kidney stones are the worst!!! I've had 3 of them... OWIEE! However I hope it's not something more serious! We love you and you're in our prayers!

Victoria said...

Hang in there - everything will work out.

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TheNailDutchess said...

Hang in there Kandee !!! We love u! Hope u feel better sweetie :)
~ Amber ~

Wendy said...

Sending huge love and hugs, Kandee. I've had a kidney stone, and I know how painful they can be. I'm out with back pain today, too.

Laura said...

I am praying for you Kandee. The world is a happier place with you in it, so we need you to feel better! Thank you for the encouragement and hard work you give. It is appreciated and valued more than you know.

Ms. W said...

Kandeee! Hope you feel better soon. I've had kidney stones, they feel terrible. Praying for you, doll!

Lacey said...

Kandee, I hope you do feel better, I've passed a couple of kidney stones, my 1st one at work, and they wouldn't let me get off and get some help and I went into shock, the 2nd took me a year to pass, i was sick all year in 2007 cuz i caused me to have an infection in my urinary tract, but had no idea what it was until it passed, and i was amazed that I didn't hurt when i passed it.
Sending prayers for you, God will be there with you all the way!!! God Bless, Love Ya!!!

stephanie said...

Praying for you Kandee! God will take care of you no matter what happens. Put your trust in Him and He will carry you through.

Romans 15:13 - 13 May the God of hope fill you with all joy and peace as you trust in him, so that you may overflow with hope by the power of the Holy Spirit.

Jackie said...

Please be ok, Kandee. You don't deserve any of this stuff.

hello said...

Kandee why did you delete my posts? You're not hiding anything are you???

I was just being honest.
We do not know you.

Things we do know for sure

1. You are good at makeup
2. You probably would have been a good actress
3. You are fun to watch
4. Your child was left alone for an undetermined amount of time and started a fire
5. You were unreachable via cellphone while your child was alone and you were in a diff state
6. The police officeer deemed your home to be dirty
7. You now have new charges of Truency to accompony the child endagerment charges
8. You only have custody of one of your 3 children

Are you guilty of the criminal charges against you????
I have no idea the judge will decide that in a few weeks but the above points are solid facts :)

Im sorry you feel the need to delete facts Kandee. That is not a good sign :(


http://www.recordcourier.com/article/20100203/NEWS/100209910/0/FRONTPAGE

Lauri The Artist said...

Aww oh no Kandee, I hope you get better and that everything starts looking up for you =/ I'm sure your whole online family will be praying for you..I know I will =)

(btw I admire how you can have bad times in your life but still manage to be joyful =) )

Jin~ said...

Hang in there Lassie! I believe you will get through this :]

Love you! Will be praying.

-Karen

P.S you give me hope!

vanessa.marino said...

"Hello" (you don't even have the courage to have a name) Thanks for the recap of the allegations Kandee is being charged with. Although you have enough smarts to say that it is for the judge to decide, your motivations clearly come for a place of spite and jealousy. Keep drinking your haterade!!

Kandee, looks like you have made some mistakes but so has every single person on this planet. Oh, but our "Hello" friend is actually the only person who hasn't I guess. Keep your head up, learn and improve from your ordeal. Lots of love and light!

Amber said...

Um "Hello" I think that your mom must have forgot to teach you that if you don't have anything nice to say then don't say anything at all.
wow what a coward bully taking cheap shots and trying to kick someone while they're down.
Everyone leaving comments is leaving thoughts of encouragement and if Kandee wants to delete your comment that's her right. This is her blog after all.

Kayvona B said...

I love your blog!!
I hope you feel better and will def be praying for you :)

christyjoy said...

You know, I spoke to my lawyer friend and he said this was one of the stupidest things he's ever heard. What parent doesn't carry hairspray and a lighter? And he told me that you shouldn't worry and if you have ANY other legal questions, you're free to ask. =)

And also, he said you are allowed a lawyer, and if you can't afford one, they SHOULD give you one...unless its a family practice law (I can't remember specifically) then you just need a defender. I can't remember, it was sooo much lawyer lingo, I got confused. But let me know if you have any other questions and I'll relay it to him. I think his office is in LA.

christyjoy said...

Also, to "Hello"....What single mom with 3 kids who doesn't have a nanny or a maid and has a full time job have a near perfect home?

Maybe in a "perfect" world...but there is no such thing.

AmberIsland said...

Kandee, We have a lot in common. I am a Mother of 3 children and also had a run-in with Child Protective Services which ended in me losing my children for a couple months because I hadn't the money to get a lawyer to represent me. It took 3 months for these accusations to be finally proven wrong and for me to get my children back home!!! (The legal system is so tortuously slow) After they got home they were in dire need of counseling and so afraid of leaving me for even 5 minutes. About 6 months later I started getting horrible pains in my side and I kind of shrugged them off until I was absolutely debilitated one day. These pains lasted for 4 days, then I couldn't stand anymore so I went to the hospital - turns out I have a Gall stone the size of a $2 coin (Canadian) stuck in the tube exiting my Gall Bladder. Well, then they insert a tube and bag into my Gall Bladder (without anesthetic and awake) which I had to wear for 2 months while my huge and inflamed Gall Bladder has time to settle. I finally just got it removed a couple months ago & I feel SO much better !!! It's strange how 2 people who have never met can live their lives and go through almost identical trials. You WILL come out of this life-speed bump a better woman. Love, Amber.

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