tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-53018157559752812.post3778305573476293441..comments2023-11-03T03:33:14.028-07:00Comments on kandeej.com: How to Deal With Rude People:Kandee Johnsonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15809204166587461291noreply@blogger.comBlogger44125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-53018157559752812.post-55127040981399234802012-09-13T06:58:29.340-07:002012-09-13T06:58:29.340-07:00Great advice!! I will definently try this next tim...Great advice!! I will definently try this next time I encounter a "rudey" lol! Cute leopard sweater by the way! I love animal print!!iris1288https://www.blogger.com/profile/06013692416703697965noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-53018157559752812.post-4543430996630137882012-09-13T06:46:41.947-07:002012-09-13T06:46:41.947-07:00Thank you, Kandee. I work in costomer service and ...Thank you, Kandee. I work in costomer service and you wouldn't believe how many rude people I encounter daily. I was actually dreading going to work today just for the fact that I don't want to deal with another 'rudy' thank you for your uplifting post. It just what I needed today. :)Unknownhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07249594310503746622noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-53018157559752812.post-62259658686853379672010-08-08T22:08:46.436-07:002010-08-08T22:08:46.436-07:00yay, thank you Kandee. I just had a swarm of troll...yay, thank you Kandee. I just had a swarm of trolling comments on my page with some really mean things for the first time. At first i was mad that someone actually could just write that, but then i thought how sad is it to call someone stupid and ugly while they have no pictures of themselves and they dont even have the guts to up theyre name. On the bright side of it though i must of done something right with my blog if i have people hating already. :)Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00816792608794428073noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-53018157559752812.post-41417938007816194482010-08-08T18:09:34.591-07:002010-08-08T18:09:34.591-07:00Kandee, I am a huge fan -- not only do you encoura...Kandee, I am a huge fan -- not only do you encourage beauty on the outside (boostin' my confidence for sure), but you preach beauty on the inside. Its so hard to come by with the consistent negativity we all get everyday about our bodies, our minds, and our spirits. We all have bad days sometimes, but you give me faith that there are still really beautiful, kind individuals out there.<br /><br />But mostly to comment on your #1: I work in that cupcake shop. When I read your blog and saw the pictures, I am devastated to know that they were so rude to you, let alone ANYONE ELSE. They tarnish the business' reputation, as well as all the hard work that I (and so many other amazing people) put into my our jobs to make sure it counts every single day. Their holier-than-thou attitude is not a universal trait. There is no excuse for it, but I am ashamed and apologize for all the negativity you had to endure in such a happy place. <br /><br />Thank you for being so gracious! If you come back to Seattle, I would treat you to any ol' cupcake you want, any ol' day. The Glaminar looked like a blast! Wished I could've gone! I hope my city has treated you well <3Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-53018157559752812.post-34296659507325960002010-08-08T15:23:39.318-07:002010-08-08T15:23:39.318-07:00you should be extra kind to them because that make...you should be extra kind to them because that makes them even more mad! haha! but sometimes you do have to say something back to them (not necessarily something rude) to put them in their place and let them know that they're being jerksAnna-Lisahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02260900464228293633noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-53018157559752812.post-62345890575654725342010-08-08T02:53:40.286-07:002010-08-08T02:53:40.286-07:00Thank you for this post! I will think of it tomorr...Thank you for this post! I will think of it tomorrow, my first day at work after my vacation. I will always think "happy thoughts" from now on and don't let the rude people get to me. Because I have a wonderful life at home, a loving husband, 3 beautiful stepchildren and my little son, sweet as a cupcake! Thank you!Zizzihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17559218687333603916noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-53018157559752812.post-33032089578682725932010-08-08T01:00:10.875-07:002010-08-08T01:00:10.875-07:00This is SUCH a great post, Kandee! The other day I...This is SUCH a great post, Kandee! The other day I went to ULTA and my husband was waiting for me in the car. He said he saw an older woman walk up to the door just as five girls arrived at the same time. The older woman opened the door for the girls so they could go in first. My husband noted that none of the girls said thank you to the woman or aknowledge her standing there. One of the girls was texting as she walked in too. I think it's a generational thing and I do include my generation as well. We were left at home as latch key kids with a TV as a babysitter. This new generation has now stopped with alot of face to face communication and just texts and emails. Also parents are so afraid of their children that they don't reprimand or discipline them not to mention they don't want to be parents and they'd rather be friends with their kids. That is not a good foundation for any child. <br /><br />So back to the rudeness I think this post is great and I hope that man people can use it as inspiration and help when someone is rude to them. I run into rude people all the time and I don't have a thick enough skin to let it roll off of me yet. It does hurt. BUT I will pray about it and keep what you've said here in mind.Shttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11211730000589549002noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-53018157559752812.post-57206683993204587242010-08-07T13:05:46.700-07:002010-08-07T13:05:46.700-07:00I love your blog, Kandee!
You are truly a happy ...I love your blog, Kandee! <br /><br />You are truly a happy maker :)<br /><br /><br />Lots of love from Norway <3Tonjehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05864624590764987488noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-53018157559752812.post-79128216522805041752010-08-07T08:49:42.160-07:002010-08-07T08:49:42.160-07:00http://christineiversen.blogspot.com/http://christineiversen.blogspot.com/Christinehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06661459365827683198noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-53018157559752812.post-10506539571006161972010-08-07T07:45:30.615-07:002010-08-07T07:45:30.615-07:00Kandee- what a fabulous post! i feel sorry for rud...Kandee- what a fabulous post! i feel sorry for rude people too! your post was so good I shared it on my Facebook page!Veronikahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08575345245880329712noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-53018157559752812.post-12615431716915776352010-08-07T02:52:52.027-07:002010-08-07T02:52:52.027-07:00i love u kandee...
you are right .,actually rude p...i love u kandee...<br />you are right .,actually rude people are everywhere.<br />i think death like a dog is more painful than yours.<br />anyway kandee u are right at ur place..<br />I also think that everyone at some point in their day or week, comes across the path of at least one person who is rude to you.Semi Permanenthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09049361730564248465noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-53018157559752812.post-1994629671959792592010-08-07T02:51:36.758-07:002010-08-07T02:51:36.758-07:00kandee you're amazing! seem to know just what ...kandee you're amazing! seem to know just what to say always! see you in the windy city girl! Can't wait!Polish-Slorehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05488551362010633147noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-53018157559752812.post-42386210407827583092010-08-07T00:11:00.859-07:002010-08-07T00:11:00.859-07:00If it's one of the things that I've notice...If it's one of the things that I've noticed most, is that a lot of people in the service industry are rude- which I find a little ironic as they are employed to deal specifically with people...I actually went into a bookstore with a gift card of about $30 and while I was there found the Burt's Bees line which I've always wanted to try but never have so I decided to buy it with my gift card. While at the register this 15 year old girl (mind you I'm 22) looked at me and while ringing me up said "wow you don't read much do you?" and I said "excuse me?" and she said "well it's just that you get a gift card to a book store and you spend it all on beauty products." <br /><br />What I wanted to say was "Well actually, I graduated Magna Cum Laude of my University, and just got offers to 3 top universities who are willing to pay for my Phd- so I'm pretty sure I am more of an avid reader than you are" -but I didn't say any of those things. I simply smiled and said goodbye as I walked away with my beauty products.<br />:)Rosehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09319804389896871571noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-53018157559752812.post-61439656942623053282010-08-06T23:32:31.085-07:002010-08-06T23:32:31.085-07:00Thank you for this so useful post :)!You're ri...Thank you for this so useful post :)!You're right,with kindness we can beat the rudeness.It shocks rude people when you're nice to them.It completely disarms them :)!<br />Love you Kandee <3!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-53018157559752812.post-66362046290727949622010-08-06T20:18:52.671-07:002010-08-06T20:18:52.671-07:00#2 was my favorite!
Thanks Kandee, you always know...#2 was my favorite!<br />Thanks Kandee, you always know how to cheer people up :)Tati's Spothttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12813255177479192788noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-53018157559752812.post-44334102535843116392010-08-06T20:12:31.293-07:002010-08-06T20:12:31.293-07:00One of your best posts Kandee!! I was kinda bummed...One of your best posts Kandee!! I was kinda bummed by some rude people today while shopping. It put me out of the mood for the celebratory shopping my sis and I were doing 'cause she just came home after being away for 5 weeks. I pretty much forgot about it, but reading your post made me realize how much I let rude people get at me sometimes. I'm so sensitive sometimes it frustrates me that I let petty people bother me. <br />Thanks for the lift!!AHHHHHHHHHHH!https://www.blogger.com/profile/00062417342531198239noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-53018157559752812.post-19019936946315938432010-08-06T20:06:32.796-07:002010-08-06T20:06:32.796-07:00OMG I can't believe U were on my blog whhhaaa....OMG I can't believe U were on my blog whhhaaa... I'm doing the cart wheel right now lol jk. But thanks for the sweet comment and it was super fun meeting you. I know you get this a lot, but you're truly amazing and an inspiration to all of us. <br /><br />I'm not even famous and i get rude comments on my blog from time to time and i just delete and ignore them :)<br /><br />*hugs*Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15324644776909251842noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-53018157559752812.post-29421032549270653022010-08-06T19:42:30.292-07:002010-08-06T19:42:30.292-07:00It's something I need to work on. I have a har...It's something I need to work on. I have a hard time dealing with rude people. =zAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-53018157559752812.post-80109843451245768392010-08-06T18:14:19.131-07:002010-08-06T18:14:19.131-07:00Kandee, I just found you on You Tube and have watc...Kandee, I just found you on You Tube and have watched 50 videos so far tonight! I am a fair skinned real red head with green eyes. I was wondering if you maybe could do a video on colors for a redhead or green eyes for an every day fresh look and smokey eye? Also, my eyebrows are right on top of my brow bone and there isn't much space there like yours, any tips? I wasn't sure of the best way to contact you...sorry if this isn't the right place.Unknownhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08260300344669467575noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-53018157559752812.post-62939355133989028312010-08-06T18:13:57.637-07:002010-08-06T18:13:57.637-07:00I sooo agree, especially #4. You're so sweet :...I sooo agree, especially #4. You're so sweet :)Michellehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12979561777850669615noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-53018157559752812.post-260806998097855292010-08-06T16:34:24.012-07:002010-08-06T16:34:24.012-07:00I'm struggling with rude people al ot recently...I'm struggling with rude people al ot recently and like this post. But the killing people with kindness hasn't worked in my experience. It just makes people think I'm a push over and they can keep being a jerk. Maybe killing people with assertiveness is better. :)Unknownhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12544860275774784933noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-53018157559752812.post-26648681941749376542010-08-06T15:53:26.840-07:002010-08-06T15:53:26.840-07:00Wow, what good timing! :D
http://cheapandeasyblog...Wow, what good timing! :D<br /><br />http://cheapandeasyblog.blogspot.com/2010/08/having-good-day-spread-love.htmlCheap and Easyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11704186280535083710noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-53018157559752812.post-55929420626080771912010-08-06T15:36:48.578-07:002010-08-06T15:36:48.578-07:00Great post! I really like this one. This is someth...Great post! I really like this one. This is something we all deal with day to day. The world is and has always been stuck with people who are frustrated with their lives and end up taking it out on others. You never know she could have been having a bad day and someone had hurt her. I always thought happiness was contagious and sharing your happiness with others is an important gift you can give to others.Thanks kandee for reminding me of this!!:)<br />Feda http://freespiritnamedfeda.blogspot.com/Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-53018157559752812.post-50491255548074455662010-08-06T15:31:44.103-07:002010-08-06T15:31:44.103-07:00Hi Kandee,
I love love love your blog and your yo...Hi Kandee,<br /><br />I love love love your blog and your youtube videos. <br /><br />I recently moved to Ecuador from the United States (about a year ago) and it's really difficult sometimes.<br /><br />I'm planning my own image consulting business,and your inspiring words always make me feel better when I feel like I just can't take it here anymore. <br />This post came at just the right time today, the men in Ecuador are so rude with women walking down the street, whistling and saying rude things, and it really made me sad and angry today, but I read your post and it really brightened my day.<br />So I wanted you to know how much better you made my day :)<br /><br />I also have my own fashion blog I would love for you to visit at some point when you have time<br />www.realrunway.blogspot.com<br />Have a beautiful day!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-53018157559752812.post-30439061313750067652010-08-06T15:01:37.901-07:002010-08-06T15:01:37.901-07:00I am so glad I read this entry!It's a good rem...I am so glad I read this entry!It's a good reminder for me to de-stress and learn how to handle these types of people.<br /><br />I work in an industry where I constantly have to deal with rude people/douche bags and sometimes I just wanna bitch slap them upside down lol...<br /><br />MERCI!!!xoxoxoxTiramisu520https://www.blogger.com/profile/18015339036353022050noreply@blogger.com