Sunday, January 16, 2011

No power to the Haters!

"is this hater worth giving away my happiness to them?"....
NO WAY!
On Youtube, yesterday one of my "due date" videos got featured on the homepage....which means that thousands of people that normally wouldn't ever see my videos, will.
It means I will read some of the most discusting, evil, cruel and horrible things below my video....
Some people wrote things calling me all kinds of awful names...saying horrible things like they hope I die in labor and I can't even say the disgusting and cruel things they said about this precious baby that is still growing in love in my belly.
It went on to my other videos where people were saying disgusting and racist things about my Jordan...who is part African American, Japanese, Native American and English and that's not inlcuding all the nationalities that I donated to him.

Sometimes you need to take a break from something that is just spewing out badness....
as I read all these awful comments....
the ones about me are not nice...but when you insult one of my precious babies, or anyone that I love...it bothers me because I don't EVER want any of my loved ones to read that!

WE HAVE THE POWER TO LET THINGS OFFEND US....
I will not give my joy and happiness away to someone who is writing cruel things from behind the safety of their silly username and computer, or someone that cuts me off in traffic, or like all the grumpy people we come in contact with everyday!
The  DO NOT GET the power to take my joy away!
I will not give it to them.
My HAPPINESS is here to stay.
Instead of praying for people to be nicer to me....
I'm going to pray that no matter how mean people are to me...that I won't allow them the power to take an ounce of my happiness or peace!

No one knows us truly...people can hurl all kinds of assumptions, opinions, and cruel things at us...
but I will not give them the honor of having the power to let it effect me!

Since I am ready to have baby any day know, and wisdom speaks to our hearts that we need to surround ourselves with positivity, love and happiness...
not cruel and evil things (like the comments were...which I finally went on youtube and disabled)...
it was time to recharge and take a break from reading that!

I want to thank all my precious Kandee Family for leaving each one of your kind words and comments...
you have no idea how much I treasure the love in everything you take time to type!

I feel like my heart is this big treasure chest filled with sparkly jewels of love that each one of you have placed there....
thank you so much!!!!

I love you all so dearly...and I thank you so much for letting me into your hearts!
Let's stand strong....and say, "sure you are entitled to you opinion, however wrong, ridiculous, or mean it might be.....but I am entitled to not let anything you say be powerful enough for me to hand you over my happiness!"

huge love...and hugs...your kandee

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Sara said...

You have an amazingly positive attitude, very admirable - your kids are lucky to grow up with that kind of influence!

Kristina said...

Aww, Kandee, your Jordan is amazing! And you give your kids so much love I can tell!!! How could anyone offend you with those nasty words? I love your daily videos and I hope that you little baby girl will be here soon! Lots of love to you and your precious kids!!!

Betsy Lopez said...

Kandee your one in a billion that's what attracts so many to your site. Your one of Gods best creations and people say mean things because they are unhappy with themselves. Try to forget the awful things people say. Your awsome, your children are awsome and beautiful. Good luck the baby's delivery. Im excited for you and your family....I hope I can go to your glaminar next year in LA :)Love you!

Betsy Lopez said...

Kandee your one in a billion that's what attracts so many to your site. Your one of Gods best creations and people say mean things because they are unhappy with themselves. Try to forget the awful things people say. Your awsome, your children are awsome and beautiful. Good luck the baby's delivery. Im excited for you and your family....I hope I can go to your glaminar next year in LA :)Love you!

Indy said...

so glad you don't allow such ignorant and stupid things effect how you feel. it is sad that ppl feel so brave to say such hurtful things behind a computer screen. anyway, i'm almost as excited as u about ur little cupcake being born lol. i've been loving all the update videos and blogs. i hope its a very easy and safe delivery for you and she. i pray that you and ur family be blessed : ) !

alexis said...

207 comments! goodness.
when i watched your video, all i saw were comments about how good looking jordan is!
some people troll and do it because they are bored. i got that a lot on a video of mine, they have nothing better to do but be mean.
you have more followers and people who adore you then people who dislike you.

Sylwia said...

Insecurity in people breeds ugliness. There are a lot of depressed people who hate what they want to be - and you represent beauty, kindness, and success. It's very simple really. Once you can deconstruct the reasons for their reaction and understand where they are coming from - you actually feel bad for them.

Maria♥ said...

Kandee
Unfortunately some people have very small lives that they feel the need to make themselves bigger & better by being nasty to others. Never stop being you!
Much love
Maria
x

Anonymous said...

I have personally dealt with awful people who are incredibly racist, and you really can't let them get to you, because that's really what they want. They want to get under your skin.
Kandee, you are an amazingly talented young woman and you give so many women hope and confidence with the videos and advice you post. Thanks so much for all that you do.
Much love!
And I'm new to Blogspot, so if anyone wants to follow: http://thesmileyhijabi.blogspot.com/
Peace!

Unknown said...

I just can´t imagine how can people can say things like that about others, not ever about you! your shine must annoy them! Don´t worry, they would have to deal with theirs miserable life! And you´ll still be a HAPPY star we see everyday

nina@themissadventuresofnina said...

you are so beautiful and sweet and have amazing babies, so of course people are going to be jealous. Is so easy to be mean when you are miserable. Ignore them. And let all these messages be the testament that many of us love you. There's still great people out there!

A Play on Words said...

You shouldn't have to read stuff like that in the first place. People these days are so crazy and immature and will say anything behind a computer screen...it's pretty sick. Feel better and I hope everything goes great with your baby. Love reading your blog...it's inspiring and uplifting.

Smiles said...

I really relate to how you feel. People have commented on my two kids and how one is more tan and one is more fair. It hurts me so much because they are just babies. I wish it wouldn't bother me, but it does. My friend even made a comment saying that he was going to tell my husband I cheated because my youngest son has blonde hair. He said he was joking, but it hurt. Yes, he is the only one in the family with blonde hair, but my husband and I are both multiracial. So, any trait will be randomly selected. It hurt that a friend would joke like that when it's not even funny. It makes me sad that people have to be so intrusive and judge others when they know nothing. I commend you for being so strong and having the courage to still be happy. I don't know how you don't let those things keep you from doing you. Any tips for me Kandee? You're children are so sweet and that is a reflection of you. I hope all is well for your family.

Astor Adams said...

You are amazing. We need more women like you. All women need to stand with you as strong, loving, caring people. We can't change those how are feeling horrible inside, but we can isolate them from our light. I am so happy to see a women as wonderful as you with children so you love will be a heritage, a birthright to live thru generations.

Unknown said...

KANDEE!!!! I JUST WATCHED THE VIDEO. THE MEAN COMMENTS MUST HAVE COME FROM JEALOUSY! YOU LOOK AMAAAAZZZING, AND YOUR CHILDREN ARE BEAUTIFUL! I AM SOOO EXCITED FOR YOU!!!! OMG, I CAN ONLY PRAY THAT I LOOK THAT BEAUTIFUL PREGNANT!!!

Julia said...

Kandee~
Im glad you arent letting people get you down. You AND Your babies are beautiful people. EVEN little cupcake. That IS awful that people would say that, but they are people who havent taken the time and effortk to get to know you. I have come to your videos for help MANY times from everything from teeth whitening to hair and make up. I soon started, after that, reading your blogs and adding them to my favorites this in my browser. Who cares what people say. People are so quick to judge other people , its AWFUL. Who really knows what people are thinking or why they do things. But you have THOUSANDS and THOUSANDS of people who love you and enjoy your blogs and videos, and that out weights ALL the negative things people say about you! Much love from ME :o) Have a SUPER great day Kandee!!

Fabiloveesyou said...

Kandee; You and Your family are AMAZING. NO ONE on this planet can say anything different. Thank you for being! You have no idea how grateful that there is someone on this earth like you. God Bless You and your growing family.

Lana Danielle. said...

Kandee, I understand what you're going through and I am so sorry for all those hateful things.
you know they are just jealous right? Jealous that you have gorgeous babies and one on the way! They see how happy you are in life and they are just trying to bring you down.
kids being born when the parents arent married isn't a big deal anymore. maybe years ago it was but there are plenty women out there having babies without being married. god has allowed you to have your precious babies, you arent doing anything wrong. i hope everything goes perfect with your at home delivery. good luck and all my wishes go to you and your family.

Anonymous said...

I can't believe people write mean things like that, I mean I see them everywhere on just about every beauty guru's channel when ever a new video comes the ate comments do to. It sucks because I love your videos and every one else's and no one should have the right to say them! You are so great Kandee and I love your videos! Don't let the haters get to you :) Lots of people adore your videos and your right people should never attack your babies or say cruel things just because they are behind a computer :( it sucks those things got said :( but stay strong Kandee :) You have a great family and lots of viewers who adore you :)

MakeupFunhouse said...

Remember Kandee that haters are jealous people... they will hurt and put others down that deep down they wish they were like. You are an amazing kind hearted loving person and your kids are such a blessing. Don't let these nasty comments get you down, just remember that you are not alone we all support you and are here for you..

Remember: "A bend in the road is not the end of the road... unless you fail to make the turn. "

Chelsea said...

I cannot believe people would go so far as to say racist things about a kid. Jordan is an extremely handsome young man, and you are the most inspirational human beings on the planet, and when you're feeling mad, writing a blog about it is good for venting. I can't wait for Princess and the White Stick Johnson to be born and I hope that you have a great week!

:) said...

I love you lots Kandee!!! I hope everything works out wonderfully for you and you're little ones!! With every hater you get 10 more people who love and appreciate you!!!! :D

Unknown said...

Kandee! You and your family a gorgeous, wonderful, positive people. Including all of your cupcakes and your momma! :) I'm so excited for you and this baby in your belly, I feel like a good friend is waiting for her new little one! Your updates have been comforting for me, going through some tough times myself, and I feel like I can feel your love through the computer! You're amazing for not letting the "haters" get you down, and you must be raising some really great kiddies who will be POSITIVE members of our society. Ones who will not judge, or belittle or exude negative energy. There's just too much of that these days! I hope your labor is smooth and as pain free as natural labor can be! (ha ha ha) Best of Luck... Peace, Love, Creativity and Smiles!

-Jessalynne

Ennbad said...

The fact that people can be so cruel these days is pretty disturbing, and it gets worse by the minute.
I'm glad there are still others like you Kandee that can still smile under all this chaos and give light to the ones that need it.
You have wonderful kids, and this new-coming member is wonderful as well.

I'm not sure what else to say, other than I'm proud of you Kandee. Keep on fighting. You have our support.

isabelschild said...
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isabelschild said...

Kandee, if only your precious heart was beating in other people's chests. There are more of us who adore and admire you than those out there who feel differently. We are the ones who spend our days watching your videos, reading your blogs, and deciding to follow our dreams because of you. Count it all joy <3

Anonymous said...

Kandee, all of your children are beautiful!!! And I'm sure cupcake will only add to the beauty that already exists on the insides and outsides of your family members!

Haters are horrible. Youtube haters even try to make me feel bad by saying mean things about happy comments I write, or comments that I write to defend others. We just have to ignore them! You are right, our happiness is our own!

Anonymous said...

I think my original comment didn't get posted for some reason, but I just wanted to rewrite it to tell you that you and your family are all beautiful from the inside out. Really--insides are pure and caring, and outsides are unique and beautiful. Jordan is a handsome man! Heidi Klum's kids are also of mixed race, and they are also beautiful! People are just close-minded and ignorant.

People on youtube are just looking for someone to hurt. Your happiness is your own! We love you!

Anonymous said...

Kandee, those bad comments are pure - JEALOUSY!!!

Your beauty and happiness offends their mentality...
Your pretty face offends and all the love that you receive from your fans too!
They know that they will never have your success :)


I YUV YOU!!! LOL :)

Anonymous said...

Kandee, im sor sorry to hear that people can say such hurtfull things too suh a wonderful person like you, those people seriously need to geet a life! they are sad people and feel the need to hurt other peopel to make themselves feel better... well i say stuff them, you low lifers!!!!

Kandee, your a amazing and kind heart person1 i wish you all the best with your new babby girl.. can wait till she arriveessss!!! i think your kids are the cutest things EVER!!! dnt let people like that ruin yur wonderful spirit kandee,,

love all ways,
no1kandeejohnsonfan

Ma. Pilar Chapa said...

I love you KandEE! Way to go in handling the situation! The right way! You are such a great model!

You receive what you give, and Kandee you give your heart, your love. And it makes me happy and all full of love that I just want to give to everyone. That is why we love you so much!


Love,

Pilar


P.S. What is your ethinicity? I am curious because you have such beautiful dark hair and bone structure. I have a passion for learning about other cultures, that is the reason for my curiosity.

Lexie said...

You are such a strong, happy and amazing person Kandee! I am so glad to see you handling such horrible comments so well! You go girl! :D Keep being you and don't let anyone get at you, or anyone that you love. Because love always overpowers hate. :)

Unknown said...

Anyone who would say such awful hateful things to you are just jealous of the beautiful person you are and the beautiful life you live. I can just feel God's love through you in each and every post you put and I think that is so awsome! You are such an awsome inspiration for everyone out there who needs a little love and a little fun in their life. You are incredible and don't let anyone get you down!! =)

Blessings to you and all your wonderful babies, including your little cupcake in the oven!! You are fabulous!

Stephanie said...

People will always judge. You are a beautiful person, Kandee, so full of love and happiness for everyone. I admire your big heart and I think it's awesome that you're not letting the haters get to you. Keep being your wonderful self! :)

Fashion.Make-Up.LifeStyle said...

Kandee,
Keep your head up. You're such a strong/amazing mother/role model and a huge inspiration to tons of people. It hurts my heart to know that are such mean human beings out there. Seriously get a life.
Kandee your beautiful your kids are amazing and we all can tell that they have such an amazing happy soul and is all bcs of what an amazing mother you been to them.
Keep your head up. And hoping your cupcake arrives soon. Can't wait to meet her.
Smooches!

Tory said...

Never let a hater put a frown on your face. It is much to pretty with a smile on it.

You are beautiful and your kids are too, don't ever let anyone tell you different. We cannot control who they are but we can control how we deal with them. They win the minute they see that they have gotten to you. So "NO WAY" are they going to ruin your happiness!

Much love,
T

Anonymous said...

We love you Kandee. I pray for you and your baby's safety and health. God bless you!

glamatronic said...

Aw, I'm so sorry, Kandee. I enjoy all of your videos, so don't let the haters get to you.
I really can't understand why people are so mean and hateful like that. Why would anyone want to make someone feel bad? I mean making a person feel good about themselves will me feel good about myself in return, so it seems they would feel bad about being mean to someone... but unfortunately there are just straight-up evil people out there - It's so sad. Just ignore their comments. I can tell you are a really sweet and I wish you the best of luck with your new baby, videos, blog, makeup career, and everything else in your life. I'm sure the love around you outweighs all of the hate and that's all that matters. :D

Natalia said...

Oh my gosh Kandee! People shouldn't do that. People who said that don't deserve your tasty Kandee Cupcakes. I find that its so cool with your son having all of that in him :)
Love you and stay strong
~Natalia(13)

Cookie said...

I am so sorry to hear of this...I just recently found you and I am so happy I did...You have a wonderful spirit! One of the reasons I like you...Big Cyber Hugs Coming Your Way!!! Love ya! Cookie :D

Anonymous said...

Kandee,
I am sooooo sorry these crazy people left you such horrible comments towards you and your family! I was telling my fiance what sick people would say such awful things about someone that they dont even know! Especially towards their children-anyones children for that matter! I know from what Ive read about you so far, that you dont even need me or any other fan to tell you that you are stronger than that and you will just dust it off your shoulders. I use to be one that cried over cruel words and never forgets. Recently a former high school friend who I havent seen or spoken too since hs which was 10 years ago, left an AWFUL, OFFENDING and HURTFUL post on my facebook wall. Instead of crying over it, I just deleted it, as well as him, blocked him, and never thought about it again, nor spoke of it and just moved on. These are just jealous people that have nothing better to do with their time. And I truley belive Karma is the ultimate B*tch! You are a beautiful woman inside and out and you a truley an inspiration to me! After reading your blogs and watching all your videos and trying all your techniques which truly have changed my skin-I sat and really thought what am I doing with my life? Instead of waiting for something amazing to happen to me, I made it happen for myself. I finally got started on my own buisness and cant wait for what the future will bring. Thank you Kandee for sharing YOU with the world. I wish you the best of luck, love and happeniness and the perfect childbirth to come. XOXO

Anonymous said...

Kandee-

You are GORGEOUS and your children are wonderful.

I am sorry they said those things.

It is sad that people can have so much hate in their hearts. Having Jesus in your heart really does wonders, huh! He softens us and throws away all of the harshness and hate.

Thank you for being so encouraging! You are wonderful in every way!

hugs
-Abrielle

Kristie Loman said...

You are awesome! Your son is handsome and sweet! I loved your video, I just hate that there are so many mean people in this world. You are an inspiration! Thank you!

DOMESTICBABE said...

it's taken me a really long time to realize this, i'm so glad that i finally have after 10 years of dealing with people constantly trying to bring me down - and sometimes succeeding.

internet trolls are pathetic.

Jen said...

Kandee YOU are the most beautiful person..inside and out. and all of your babies are gorgeous. it's sad that some people have nothing better to do with their lives but to be ugly,mean,vicious,hurtful people.no one deserves to be talked (or commented!)to like that. But you are surrounded by people who love you..even if some of us have never met you!and the haters can't touch you.(or any of us!) you have taught me so much..from beautiful eye make-up to not being afraid to wear what I want to wear and most important, to love myself for who I am and to never stop sharing and spreading that love. life is hard..but it's even harder when you're full of hate and gloom. whenever I feel down I think of you and it puts a smile on my face:) keep being the YOU that YOU are and I can't wait to see your precious little cupcake in a video!!
much love,
Jenna

Missy G said...

Kandee,I'm so deeply sorry someone did this.I've been a fan of yours not even a year on youtube and facebook and even your blog.And really enjoy your blogs and videos.And think your a wonderful human being.I wish to be more like you.Your a kind,caring person.Love your fan,Melissa.

marie32 said...

Do not worry about this haters, they just jealous because they might be just lonely, stupid people.
We do love you so much and your kids are so beautiful and by the way you will have a lot of trouble with Jordan and all the girls coming around your house lol.
I myself did suffer of racism when i was younger because my mum was from vietnam and my dad was french but i am very proud from where i come from.And now i found a sudanese husband lol so imagine my childre the mixed up.
And we always say the children mixed are always the most beautiful.
I send you a lot of hugs from UK and we do support you a lot.

Marie

Sévérine said...

Don't let the haters get too you. You are a great woman and I can't wait untill you get in labor. This baby will be perfect!

Anonymous said...

Hi Kandee!
I hope you read this.

I've seen the comments on numerous of your videos and what seems to "bug" people is that they have this crazy idea that you're a single mom with 4 children from 4 different men. VERY narrowminded of them. I think they can rot away in their little hate cave but if you're seeking answers or a solution, including your man in your videos would make some of the prejudice people shut up. Just say his name or something so they hear it. It's a shame that people need to use hate, especially with beautiful sould like yours. I hope all of this ends soon!

Best wishes to your amazing family!
/ Angelika from Sweden

Anonymous said...

Don't worry sweetie!
there are tons of us who suport you! srry for any typo, i'm from Portugal xD take care

Unknown said...

I can't believe people are so mean too talk about other people children let alone some one else. I'm angry that they would talk about your babies. Your like family and for them to talk about you and your beautiful children's like that makes me so mad. Don't worry about those HATERS, because your a wonderful mom and friend.

Love,
Natasha from Kissimmee, FL

Laynie said...

I feel sad for people who have nothing better to do than to spew vile hatred. What kind of life can they have? How can they even look at themselves in the mirror?

You're right... you have the power to walk away and leave their hate with them. Also, your Jordan is a handsome young man who will grow up to be a strong, handsome man who'll hopefully have some of the values you're teaching him. Let the haters hate... they're only bringing themselves down.

Chin up, lil mama.... you've got a baby to birth! =P

Bethany said...

Kandee YOU ARE AMAZING!!! So are your precious children!! Let the haters hate thats what they do best...they are so miserable that they try and make other people miserable too. BUT NOT YOU!!!! YOU HAVE A WONDERFUL LITTLE FAMILY AND YOU HAVE A HEART OF GOLD! TEAM KANDEE!!!!!

Ariel2010 said...

I want to say thank you for being so inspirational. I adore you. I look forward to youre new videos and blogs. I'm a mom and love my little one. People can be so discusting. Those haters are the ones with the problem. I wish you and youre baby a healthy labor. Without you in this world the sun would not be as bright.

Anonymous said...

You just can't understand it can you? That anyone would get the tinest amount of joy out of saying horribe things. Those people really need God.
It's especially awful what they said about Jordan and you're baby!
Please Kandee, don't let these people ruin the birth of your little baby. It shouldn't matter what any of us think about your life here on YouTube. It's your life, and you choose to share it with us. We're extremely lucky for that, because there seems to be a shortage of people as selfless and beautiful hearted as you are. Please don't even think about them!
God bless you and ALL your babies!
Emma, England xxxxxxx

rainydayreader said...

I can't believe people could be so cruel. I am so proud of you for being strong in all of this. Stay close to God and he will stay close to you! He will bring you through all of this. Love you!!!!

Anonymous said...

Sorry about what they said about you're son, they're just pathetic people who have nothing else to do with their time, instead of watching your video's they criticise them, ha maybe they should start a you tube channel and see what we think about it :)
hope you're okay and your baby is most precious thing, don't let them get to you, i'm so exited for you and hope it all goes well.
sophie x

SaraJeanne said...

Kandee you don't deserve any of the horrible comments you read. I just saw a 'guru gossip' type thread online and the things people say are disgusting indeed. They can call you whatever they want, and they'll believe you are whatever they want to think you are, but you DO NOT need to carry that on your shoulders. I don't know what people are thinking when they say something horrible about others, or about a baby. That's just vile. You have so much love and prayer in your direction Kandee- don't ever forget that!

sarah.301098 said...

Hi Kandee,I have 6 beautiful children all of mixed race,(which I am also)And I know how cruel ppl can b.U r beautiful inside & out,and yr son Jordan is a very handsome young man,& Im sure yr bubbly,positive personality & kind soul has rubbed off on him.Any1 that could even think of such awful things let alone write them is not even worth yr thoughts!!I love yr videos,I watch 4 the make up but am always left feelin bright and positive.Kandee,U have an amazing ability 2 brighten ppls day with yr beautiful smile and kind encouraging words.I wish u the best of luck with the birth of yr new little blessing,may it b a wonderful love filled experience 4 u and yr family.Love always,a big fan,Sarah xXx

Unknown said...

It's so easy to say bad things in youtube...it always pisses me off when I see disrespectful comments towards anyone who posts something in youtube... I wonder if people think twice about what they post or if they just say the first stupid thing that come to their simple mind...Like if people who make videos in youtube don't have feeligs at all!
Anyways....I want to thank you for sharing your videos... I've been enjoying all your pregnancy /due date/post due date videos... they make me laugh and smile... So much that I'm checking your blog everyday to see if you already gave birth or still not!! hehe...
Good luck with everything!

Regards from The Netherlands

earth said...

You & your family are gorgeous, kind, wonderful people. It hurts my heart to know people spread hate without even considering, or caring, how it might impact the person they're directing it towards.

I'm glad you don't let these negative comments get to you. They're all false, anyway. You're beautiful, a wonderful mother & person. Anyone would be lucky to have you in their life. :)

g. said...

Your videos are full of such positivity and joy, it genuinely makes me smile a bit more each time I watch one of your videos. How people can attack you, or your children is beyond me. Keep doing what you're doing. You're an inspiration!

Delayed Common Sense said...

People will always spew disgusting nothingness. And like you said they are doing it from behind the security of their computer and user names. Don't let those comments change your heart and take your joy. It's not worth it to let it make you angry. You're a beautiful person and your children I'm sure are beautiful as well. Just live your life and do you! And congrats on the new baby - whenever she arrives, if she hasn't already.

Anonymous said...

Honestly, this is why you are popular Kandee. Because you are confident, wise, kind-hearted, and a wonderful independent mother and make-up artist! Of course you won't listen to those stupid, worthless comments! They just pixels that mean NOTHING. You are strong, and you are an inspirational role-model.

Keep strong, Kandee. We love you so so so so so much! :)

Ruth said...

from the first time i have seen one of your videos and your gorgeous face ( i really mean that..hehehe!)
....there' only one thing that crossed my mind....your one of the happiest person i have seen ( or watched instead)....

you really made made my day joyful and full of beautiful tips everytime im watching those awesome videos...

i wanna be as happy as you are..
don't mind those comments...as long as you inspire lots of people like...you are hepful...
HOPING FOR MUCH MUCH AWESOME VIDEOS.....

lizzybee said...

Dearest Kandee,

You seem to have a reasonable grasp of the motive that fuels the negative/resentful folks out there who say such horrid things to others: they HATE that you and others are blessed with what they are not and they want you to feel down on their level- they wish to "steal your joy". Don't ever allow it. Pray for them instead. Love them. They need it. Love Beth in Pgh

Laurette said...

I think you're so inspiring, you're great! Keep spreading the positivity, love you! I also wish you a lot of luck with your baby!!

Emmi said...

People on the internet can be so mean and as a very sensitive person I know that bad comments can easily get you but like you said they are not worth it. It's just too easy to write and insult people because you don't need to take the responsibility of your sayings when you cand hide behind the computer screen.

I'm very sorry you had to hear or read those comments. Just be positive as you always are! The most important thing is that we always know our own truth. I hope you all best and that your baby will born healthy and fine.

Greeting from Finland, love Emmi :).

A said...

People are horrible! You're such an awesome, sweet and fun person who doesn't deserve any of their nasty comments! Don't let them get to you!! I hope you are doing great and I hope everything goes wonderfully with the baby! :D

Unknown said...

<3 Sending you a boomerang full of love, all the way from Norway <3

Unknown said...

<3 Sending you a boomerang full of love, all the way from Norway <3

Tuss said...

Kandee,
Here's two words for the haters..."Stuff them"
Some people are hating on you because they don't understand how to truly have happiness and joy in their lives like you do. They're truly pitiful. You just stay strong and keep having fun. :D

Sara said...

ok, so i'm not even going to spend my energy wondering how anyone can say racist things about your beautiful boy or be mean about the baby and you. in stead, i want to tell you that your videos bring so much joy to my day! and the way you talk and think brings me peace!! so much peace!! thank you sooo much!!! i hope you have the best labor possible!! lots of love to you and all your beautiful babies!!
thank you for being a part of my life!!
Sara
(love from Portugal!!)

Anemone said...

I saw some comments on certain other videos you made...like the comments i think you mean...they are truly horrible and even make me sick to my stomach trying to figure out why people would even think those things...i pity them...they don't really see love or happiness in everything...
i would say they are jealous. There are thousands of people who love you Kandee...and who genuinely care for you regardless they met you or not and best thing is you get more friends everyday...Just keep spreading love

Chelsea Leon said...

Hey Kandee!!

I work at Victoria's Secret and there is a song that's been playing on a soundtrack that always reminds me of you! "Shake Them Haters Off"

"It's like a job that I never get a break from, because haters never take a vacation.. but really I don't even mind because they hatin' all the time, must be doin' something right..."

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uSQ_LLjv1eI

<3 Stay strong and keep smiling!!
XOXO Chelsea Leon

jardelle said...

Kandee they have a problem not you,they are frustrated people that need help...don't take them in serious,anyone can write anything on internet....think about your baby,that is the important thing,the world is full of crazy people...

Unknown said...

I totally agree with you... don't worry about what people say!
You're so beautiful and happy and I'm sure your baby will grow up in a wonderful world because of you :)
Sorry for my english, I live in Switzerland (so you can see, people from the whole world loves what you do ^^)
Good luck! Hope you're fine and your little baby too :)

Unknown said...

When I look at your Jordan I see nothing but astonishing young man with a great brain, and I see YOUR son. You are the same :)
I never, ever in my life, sow a person as good as you are, you have a pure hart and that is what counts. But the best part is that this pure heart is combined with great mind and mindblowing appearance. You're a full package, winning combo ^^. Don't ever let them (haters)get to you. You are so above them. You are something they can just pray to be. I know you're getting loads of messages like mine but still, you said you love our care - so I'm sharing mine :D.

Great love,
Kristina

Wynne said...

kandee, I have been watching your videos for a few years now and I have to tell you that I feel like you are a friend of mine. You are so sweet and genuine and you do these videos for free to help all of us look and feel our most beautiful. You are so beautiful inside and out and you are a little ball of sunshine! I hate that you have to deal with the worst of people because you put yourself out there, but just know that there is so much love pouring your way not just for you but for your children too! Hope you and cupcake are doing well!

TheGLAMlifexo said...

People can be so cruel <3 I know you won't let it get to you. You're an amazing mother and an incredibly strong woman !! We all admire you so much, and the people that made those comments don't even know who you are. Sending my love to the beautiful baking cupcake and you from Canada <3
We love you ,
Marissa !! xo

firedmotion said...

I totally agree with your comment. Kind of not letting negative people or comments affect you. That is one thing that took me forever to really sink in. But it did. One thing about some people is that they will hold onto any type of information that is sent out and sometimes use it for bad. Or they think they know you & what your about & your situation when really they don't. It is not any of their business. There is always two sides to one story, I wish some people would get that instead of judging

Anonymous said...

Kandee, you have the most warmest heart a person can ever have! I dont know how anyone can come up with anything bad to say about you. You are the true definition of a beautiful person! You inspire me in every one of your videos and blogs, to be a better person. I wish you only the best! :)

Blondie said...

I can't belive those jerks! What did you or Jordan ever do to them?...NOTHING! They are just jelous that they can't have the gift of being a mother or have a child that is so wonderfully multicultural. Jordan is like a true American because America was built on the idea that you don't have to be a certain race to be a citizan or real American! That's so cool and beautiful! No matter who says what the rest of your blog and youtube family and I will stand up for you, support you, and always be there for you! I belive I can speak for all of us when I say we love you and life would be so dull and boring without you! In the end those awful people will have to be judged by the king of all kings and probably be punished for their actions if they don 't open their hearts to GOD and JESUS, but you will be praised for taking the high road and filling so many people's hearts with love, inspiration, and laughter. When someone hurts me I try to forgive them (it's easier said than done!) and I pray that that whatever is borthing them inside is soothed and whatever problems they may have or solved because most people that hurt others for no reson are hurting on the inside and just need someone to take it out on, unfortunately it's usually an inocent person who has nothing to do with what is hurtig them. I've learned this first hand on many ocasions but that's a long enough story to fit an encylopedia series! LOL I also pray that their eyes and hearts open to GOD and that they get to know him and that they be forgiven for ALL of their sins. Always remember we all love you no matter what and we'll alwas be here for you! Prayers, thoughts, and love! (for you and all of your beautiful kids, and cupcake or princess and the white stick too!)

The LOSER said...

I followed u here after watching your videos...And read this post....you know i have read this at that point of my life when i needed this type of inspiration a lot. Seriously it inspired me a lot. Have subscribed u and from 2day ur my Dear......

Unknown said...

Go Kandee! Those haters are just jealous of everything you have mkay? Because you are a very beautiful and inspirational woman who i think is awesome and you rock woman! I love you and you're babies even though I dont personally know you :) So stay strong and happy as you are and you will win in the end! Lots of love from me mwaaah

Mialiciousss xx

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