Monday, August 13, 2012

How Attractive and Beautiful Are You?



These might be questions you might think would be asked to know if you are "beautiful" or not:

1. How much money do you have?

2. Do you look like a beautiful celebrity or model?

3. How much do you spend on your hair or beauty treatments?

4. Do you know you are better than looking than everyone else?

5. Do people tell you all the time that you are beautiful?

The most beautiful people I've ever been around...had beauty from a place that will never get wrinkles, need plastic surgery, and you could "see" the beauty without even needing to use your eyes. You can FEEL their beauty.

BEAUTY, as cliche as it sounds, can't be bought in any make-up product- sure you can glam up, doll up, cover up in make-up...
but the beauty I'm talking about...
the beauty that is attractive...
that people want to be around...
that people feel better for being around...
truly comes from the heart.

I have met many girls and women, that yes, may have appeared to be "eye beautiful"...but they were not "heart beautiful".


GUYS ON BEAUTIFUL GIRLS...
I have talked to several of my guy friends over the years, and always found it funny that they would talk about a girl that was "outwardly beautiful", but she was so boring or rude, or negative, or sarcastic, or conceited...that they couldn't stand them.

I myself have seen or known women, that had faces that were just stunning, but the second they spoke, you could see how "unstunnning" their attitude was.

I also have a friend, that is not what the world would call a "perfect face" or "thin"..but her personality is so happy, fun, and full of laughter and smiles...that no matter where we'd go- guys would be lining up to get her phone number. You'd have thought she was the world's most attractive woman!

Next time you look in the mirror..don't ask yourself then if you are beautiful......
When you see the smile you can give to other people and the love and compliments you can give to others....then ask yourself how beautiful you are.

All outside beauty will fade....but the beauty of the heart will shine til your last day on Earth.

BEAUTY MISSION:
TODAY....give someone a compliment- yes the one you think of telling someone but never do.
Smile more...a real smile, one that might even show your teeth!
Don't walk through a store or restaurant as if you're the only one that matters...share a smile, offer someone to go in line in front of you that has less things, or tell someone that they're doing a great job, or they look great...leave a trail of beauty wherever you go!

hugs and always remember,
you're more beautiful than you know
more talented than you think
and more love than you can imagine....
love from my heart to yours, you beautiful thing, you....your kandee

if you wanna see how I'm getting ready for back-to-school, clickity clak on this.

Beauty to the eyes will fade...Beauty to the heart will last a lifetime and will touch many lives.


15 comments:

Teena wilcox said...

she ain't pretty, she just looks that way! ♪♫ :)

Anonymous said...

Thank you for your blog today it really touched my heart I have always struggled with my
Outward appearance and your blog has made me remember that I'm more than what people can see on the outside thank you kandee you are the most beautiful person in the world because you have such a good and generous heart.
Megan

Kandeelover said...

Kandee u r my role model i cant believe how happy you always are !!!!!!! THANKS

Kandeelover said...

I just started reading ur blog today and it is perfect

Anonymous said...

The movie "Shallow Hal" is a great example of this.

Kandeelover said...

Ya thats a great movie

sandy said...

The world needs people like you Kandee. you spread love <3

Love from Sweden

Savannah said...

Thank you soo much Kandee for your blog today(: it really helps people who need that little extra happiness in their day to make them smile. And since you made them smile they can go and pass it on(: I am truly inspired by your videos and blogs an just your story. You are what I call beautiful inside and out (:

pamela zeiger said...

Thanks for this kandee, it is so true. Being beautiful on the inside is so much more important and you are an inspiration to all.

Dana M said...

So easy to say, coming from someone gorgeous both inside AND out!! Haha, you're right though Kandee! And we love you for it!

Christie Smith said...

Aw great post! I love your blog:)
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Anonymous said...

You are absolutely beautiful for sharing this! And you are beautiful on the inside and outside.

PurpleJewl102 said...

Thanks Kandee, this really hit me and made me think differently. Thank you once again:)

Anonymous said...

This means so much coming from you because you are so beautiful and you have a love for makeup and some people think that if you love makeup then you only believe in physical beauty and you are proof that its not true:) your awesome!

Anonymous said...

I been reading and watching your videos for some time now and you are the most beautiful person I have seen from the inside and out and I think you look so much better with less or no makeup at all but you still look good with makeup on

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