Alright, so this might not be the most popular post I've ever written! But I think this is more important than reading a post on the "must-have" whatever, latest craze!
We see celebrities and fashionistas strutting their stuff everyday! People want to know what they are wearing and magazines thrive off of that curiosity.
BUT, most people don't even realize that even the most popular fashion blogger or star, may have forgotten, or may not even have any idea that they've forgotten the most important thing to put on. And because I've been in a room full of fashion bloggers that may have had $10,000 handbags, but they didn't have a dollars worth of kindness or humility.
Here's the TOP 5 "THINGS" THAT AMAZING PEOPLE MAKE SURE THEY HAVE "ON" EVERYDAY:
#1. COMPASSION - it's more beautiful than all the pairs of Louboutin's in the world. Merriam Websters definition is: a feeling of wanting to help someone who is sick, hungry, in trouble, etc.
In a world where people care more and more about themselves, compassion should be the biggest accessory your heart is wearing.
#2. KINDNESS- the dictionary describes kind as: Of a friendly, generous, or warm-hearted nature.
I don't care how "on-trend" you are, if you don't have kindness in your heart, everything else you put on, will never truly make you beautiful. Instead of pouring over the lasted in fashion trends, maybe spend some time thinking about how you can do something kind for someone else. That beats a here one minute, gone the next fashion trend anyway!
#3. HUMILITY - humility is being modest, not being prideful, stuck up, thinking you are great or better than others.
People that feel the need to act or tell others how great they are, are really so insecure that, that is how they try to feel more important. Truly great people don't try to tell you how grew they are, because they are busy making other people FEEL GREAT!
#4. GENTLENESS - Is being kind, tender, not harsh or severe, but being softer and kind. Now, some of the strongest people I know, are the most gentle. They 've been through a lot in life, they are stronger than people who pretend to be strong, to protect themselves. The world needs more gentle people, instead of a bunch of hurt and angry people trying to be tough to protect themselves. Stop making how you treat people about you, and make it about being kind to OTHERS.
#5. PATIENCE - The problem with our cell phones and internet, is that if most people have to wait 3 seconds for something they are mad that something is wasting their 3 seconds!
Wikipedia describes patience as: is the state of endurance under difficult circumstances, which can mean persevering in the face of delay or provocation without acting on annoyance/anger in a negative way; or exhibiting forbearance when under strain, especially when faced with longer-term difficulties.
Choose to be the mellow person, that goes with the flow, the person that graciously lets others go before them. And patience shows wisdom. If you have wisdom, you know that it's sometimes in the moments of being patient and waiting for something, whether it's a your dream coming true, moving, finding a partner in life, or dealing with a troubling situation or health condition, or heartache, THAT SOME OF THE MOST AMAZING BLESSING TAKE PLACE!
Next time you go to get dresses, always check to see if you've made sure you don't leave home without the most important things:
When you have these babies as your biggest, most prized accessories of your life, just watch how your life starts getting more amazing! No, designer anything can even compare. Riches aren't found in things, they are found in people and the love in your heart!
Huge hugs from your friend, always waiting her online, Kandee
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