Friday, November 11, 2011

How to Deal with Negative People

Everyone has dealt with negative people in their life. Some people live with negative people. Some people are in relationships with negative people. Some of us go to school, work, or have friends that are the negatives in our lives.

I'll tell you one thing....the negative people will always be around...BUT, the big BUT is....
you don't have to let them and their "stinkin' thinkin"...their sad way of bringing negativity to everything..their facebook posts, their tweets, their thought of the world, the day, celebrities..whoever...

Imagine just how few comments their would be on facebook if no one posted negative comments, complaints, or mean words about someone or something....
most humans favorite past times..."complaining, gossiping and trash talking someone or something"...
wouldn't know where to go....
or maybe just maybe would they try to say something good, kind or encouraging..
AND in the process they would realize that they were allowing more happiness and love into their lives...

The thoughts you let stay....
become the very way...
that you feel and think today...

Are you talking about the latest celebrity gossip?
Are you criticizing the way someone is dressed?
Are you venting your anger about someone instead of forgiving and thinking about good things?

I get lots of emails about this and wanted to make a video to help empower, encourage and give you a new way to deal with the NEGATIVE PEOPLE in your life!

REMEMBER:
heart ache and discouragement are the stepping stones to success..
others just stop on those stone and forget to keep walking
to success and happiness.
remember DON'T stop on those stones...
keep steppin' til you get to your success and happiness!

a few good quotes:

I've missed more than 9000 shots in my career. I've lost almost 300 games. 26 times, I've been trusted to take the game winning shot and missed. I've failed over and over and over again in my life. And that is why I succeed.
Michael Jordan

"Our greatest glory is not in never failing, but in rising up every time we fail."
~ Ralph Waldo Emerson


I had the blues because I had no shoes until upon the street, I met a man who had no feet.  ~Ancient Persian Saying

A person who has good thoughts cannot ever be ugly.  You can have a wonky nose and a crooked mouth and a double chin and stick-out teeth, but if you have good thoughts they will shine out of your face like sunbeams and you will always look lovely.  ~Roald Dahl (author of Charlie and the Chocolate Factory)

The future belongs to those who believe in the beauty of their dreams.
Eleanor Roosevelt

Every great dream begins with a dreamer. Always remember, you have within you the strength, the patience, and the passion to reach for the stars to change the world.
Harriet Tubman
now come hang out with me...you're not alone...you're wonderful....
everyone has been picked on, everyone has been discouraged...but so have all the greatest of people in the world...you are not alone...
we can all stand strong together and encourage each other....
I made this video for each one of you and send you the biggest hug, love your kandee


I love you...make today great! You are great....and don't let anyone tell you different! love , kandee

3 comments:

Carole Anne Ritchie said...

I loved your video Kandee. Thanks for taking the time to do the things you do. This brought a few tears to my eyes, but tears of happiness not sorrow :-) thanks. Sending you love to x

Cassondra said...

Love ur video it was so inspiring to me ,makes me want to go out and chase all my dreams.Ur such a wonderful person kandee. God Bless u! Xxxx

Pixy Dust 123 said...

Kandee you are such a inspiration to us all.We love you so much. My mom is a single parent and has raised me by herself she works 2 jobs a day and has done such a good job taking car of me.She puts others first before herself we both are just like you Kandee we laugh alot and love people who do also. not all people are like that everything you talk about in your video is so true we are so glad to have found you. when my mom has a down day i find one of your videos for her to watch and it helps her so much. Im in beauty school and also have the same problems with people saying im this or that its very hard at times buy trying not to let them stop me. We love you and a Hugh thank you to you tube for finding you. you are awsome.

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